Parents are always on the lookout for ways to transform their child's behaviour, and more importantly, unleash the reader within them. But, as parents, we often encounter a nagging stumbling block—disagreements with your child. When it comes to the world of children’s books, these disagreements can manifest in countless ways.
Why Did Jack Climb the Beanstalk?
Remember the story of 'Jack and the Beanstalk'? Of course, you do! Your child, however, might have a few questions. Questions like, 'why did Jack sneak into the giant's castle?' or 'why did he steal from the giant?' These are not just your child questioning the morality of theft; these are disagreements about story interpretation. Should you dismiss these as childish, or should you delve deeper? Well, guess which option we will propose?
Raising a Book-Lover amidst Disagreements
Squabbles about story interpretations offer an open door to understanding your child's thought process. They provide first-hand insight into their morals, ethics, assumptions, and empathy levels. As a parent, you have the unique chance to shape these and guide your child through their journey of cognitive growth - strengthening their love for reading in the process.
Listens are Invitations
The first step towards dealing with disagreements is listening – really hearing – what your child has to say. When your child questions Cinderella's decision to stay with her wicked stepmother, don't dismiss it as irrelevant. Rather, engage in a discussion aiming to see the story from your child's perspective.
A Chapter of Compassion in Every Book
Disagreements are not conflicts to be won but bridges to cross together. They are opportunities to model empathy, compassion, and listening skills to your child. When my own child questioned Little Red Riding Hood's decision to stray from the path, we engaged in a deep conversation about rules and why they are put in place. Employing children's books as tools to teach life lessons while uncovering new layers within favourite bedtime stories, can effectively turn disagreements into constructive moments.
Storytelling Techniques for Smooth Sailing
Using various storytelling techniques can help manage disagreements with your child more effectively. Ask them what they would have done if they were the protagonist or introduce alternative endings to the story and discuss their consequences. These discussions can help them understand the characters' actions and the story's moral more completely.
Children's books aren't just about engaging stories and colourful illustrations; they are also fundamental tools to develop your child's emotions, thought process, and define their character. Disagreements and subjective interpretations are part of the package. Instead of perceiving them as hitches, see them as opportunities for meaningful conversation, growth, and of course, another chapter in your parenting book.
Remember, every disagreement is an opportunity for understanding and growth. So, the next time your child raises an argument about a story, put down the book, engage them in conversation, and rest assured, your shared journey through the mesmerizing world of books will be an extraordinary one.